Some days, it feels like I’m living four different lives at once. I’m a full-time mom to two amazing kids, a full-time fashion student, a full-time finance manager at a BMW dealership, and a full-time partner in a relationship I deeply value. On paper, it sounds exhausting, maybe even impossible. But somehow, I thrive in the chaos, and here’s why.
My motivation starts at home. Being a mom and a partner means every decision I make carries weight. I want to show my children what dedication, perseverance, and passion look like in real life. In my relationship, I find strength, support, and inspiration that fuels everything else I do. Sharing life with someone who believes in your dreams while you support theirs is incredibly motivating.
Fashion challenges me to learn, grow, and explore the ever-evolving world of style, trends, and the industry as a whole. It reminds me that even in a busy life, there is room for curiosity, knowledge, and self-expression.
Finance grounds me. Managing the financial side of a BMW dealership demands precision, discipline, and problem-solving. I am motivated by numbers, strategy, and helping my team and our customers achieve goals. It is a different kind of satisfaction than fashion or parenting, but equally rewarding.
What keeps me motivated is the blend of responsibility, curiosity, challenge, and love. Each part of my life feeds the other. Fashion keeps me inspired, finance keeps me disciplined, motherhood keeps me grounded, and my relationship keeps me balanced and supported. Some days are exhausting, but I wouldn’t trade it for anything. Life does not have to be about choosing one passion over another. Sometimes the secret to motivation is letting all your passions and love coexist and thriving because of it.
Abad Atelier 